Sunday, July 24, 2011

Of four year old girls

So, our daughter is 4 now. Seems an age since that last sunset of just we two and the Bump at Llandudno.

Now it's we four. And conversations have changed (we're learning how not to interrupt!). And there's a lot of explaining to do.  Jessica and I had a long conversation in the kitchen about Amelie and Catherine in the UK the other day. She's convinced that Africa and "Eng-a-land" are on the same continent so we are still working on geography. However, she now has associated Amelie (Wales) with living close to Great Aunt Jenny (Aberdeen) so we have some small idea of location. Not!

Four years old!  She's a beanpole in height but can still fit into 1-2 yr old pants. I have to buy 5-6-7 clothing for height but then cinch pants tight around her waist.

The birthday was a bit epic, with me down with gastro for 3 days the week before. I was out of bed on the Friday, though very wobbly, Saturday was busy shopping and spending family time together with dinner out in the evening, and Sunday morning we had church at 8.30am, 15 people for brunch at 11am, an hour off  for some quiet time. 
Reading Grandma's book with Dad
More books with dad - our favourite thing to do!
The party started at 3pm with about 18 kids there  (plus parents, who I put out some punch and cheese/crackers for, then ignored from a catering perspective - sorry!). We kept it really simple and it made for a lovely afternoon. It was hilarious trying to organise such a mixed group for games, though we tried "Duck, Duck, Goose" with mixed success. But Jessica had had her heart set on it, so at least we tried! It was a bit like herding cats  :)


Once again we were very blessed with lovely weather. Four years in a row! The jumping castle proved to be the hit of the party, closely followed by the zip line that Adam has made, so no more entertainment needed.
 
In action on the jumping castle...
The "jumping lamb" turns 4!

I made an ice cream cake in the shape of a sheep, with marshmallow "wool" and that was devoured in a flash by parents and small people alike!

No more baking the night before ever again... this is the 3rd ice cream cake I have made for the kids' birthdays and they are always a total utter scrumptious hit with everyone. Note to self though: make sure you have two packets of cones 'cos the parents stand in queue too!  I ran out!
  
Grandad and Dad watching the festivities...
Mum in action!
A jumping lamb ice cream cake - yum!

The zip line in action...

Buddies in the tree house - Dylan and Luke having fun.

The girl friends: Ella, Emma, Jessica & Sienna

The birthday girl was very tired by late afternoon so there were a few tears at the party and afterwards. We opened most of her gifts the day after and read the books, did the puzzles and tried on all the clothes (lovely things - what wonderful friends we have). I still have art supplies stashed away for a rainy day.

The best part of the celebrations was having my parents down for 5 days. The kids really loved the time with them, and were sad to see them go back to Jo'burg. And it was fun to visit Fishoek for a walk and ice cream, and go to Muizenberg on the train together. I savour the moments - and am greedy for more. I remember the joy of grandparents visiting from my own childhood: such an exciting time!
Mum playing with the kids at the sea.

The Fishoek boardwalk is an adventure when Luke and Jessica are out!
Whew, so after parties and grandparents, the rest of the week closed down with our students leaving us to go back to PE. Viwe and Thulz (aka Thule) spent a month with us on vac jobs at Adam's work. We had some great conversations and the kids learnt some Xhosa songs and how to dance to rap! Lots of laughter in the house. Go well guys!


It seems relatively quiet now, if you discount the mo-bike thundering down the passage and various shrieks at all times. What's next? No idea!

It's never quite back to routine. Must leave you with a recent kid-ism from Jessica, travelling in the car, Adam driving and answering her questions:

What's that?
>  A cattle grid
What's it for?
>  To keep cows in
Why?
>  So cows don't go on the road
Why?
>  Cos cows can't go as fast as cars.
That's right - cows go low!

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